But many find a way to be at peace with it - I hope you find a therapist/med that works for you. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the TwoXChromosomes community. . I hate my family life. Oh doctor, what do we do? I hate my life. It's because, right at that specific moment, they don't like the taste or they aren't hungry or they'd rather be away from the table playing. Don't bargain or threaten or yell or cry. I can't imagine why you don't want to eat this wonderful food. 11 Surprising Signs Your Mom Is Toxic — And What To Do About It. Feel free to make, "MMmmm! Take care of your own needs. Play charades and teach them emotional expression. I think about suicide everyday but I am too chickenshit to do it. This job has taught me a few things about parenting that I'm really grateful for despite the unpleasant ways of learning them. "I love my mother -- but sometimes I hate her, too." I hate my children. Yes, take a long, glorious poop!! . They need you, they depend on you, they can't live without you. Now it's no longer an ordeal to go out with her to friends or to the store. Neon. We have a great bond. My dad and her split almost 14 years ago because of fights, and my dad apologizes and me mom won’t forgive him. They are well provided for. Oh geez, you really need a break! Discover for yourself God’s lasting hope and love. I f***** hate my life and feel typing this up here will somewhat ease the pain. That she's gaining weight just fine and is in otherwise perfect health. A mom is never, ever supposed to admit this, but here goes: I've never liked my child. If you need any more suggestions, hit me up. A lot of it comes with a shift in perspective that will work in all sorts of other positive ways too. The help you get from being able to talk about your problems, your solutions, your life, to somebody who actually can help uncover issues and help balance out your brain, is truly invaluable. Don't praise if she takes a bite, don't offer her, don't put food on the fork. He hates my mom too and always complains that she doesn't pleasure him. she hates her parents because one is drunk and her mom is a brat sometimes I am sleep deprived and I'm slowly losing my will to live one day at a time. Empathy and generosity are skills that can be fostered in a young age. Plant a few seeds and show them where it actually comes from! I sacrifice a lot for them. This is a wonderful response. Please OP, consider talking to a psychiatrist. I still feel the same, if not worse, than the day she was born. I grew up without a mother due to suicide and I would not want that for my daughter. Like literally keep it in the fridge or otherwise out of sight. We feel as if we can do things other than watch TV until our eyes melt out of our skulls. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel, wife is great and great with the kids but refuses to see anything from my point of view. At this age they don't know the difference and can't remember a toy from one day to the next. She always fills up on milk and then doesn't want anything else. Six year olds are way way better than four year olds. She said she going to start buying payless shoes because my stepdad think we good stuff a lot but not no more. Yes, DO go on those field trips. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. You're shouldering everything. Basically me and my brother me an "accident" we both werent planned births. Variety in experiences are key. You need to, while being the good mum you have proved you are, find something else on your life. But it just makes the struggle even harder. I couldn't imagine growing up with a mother who killed herself. Eat some of the dinner, then offer some graham crackers or part of a cookie. It's not for everyone. Check out our new site Makeup Addiction. He knows you and loves you, and He has a plan for your life. Many are available through family services and can be very cheap or even free, depending on your situation. I hate my life. I have been given a lot to think about, and the suggestion that my boys are naughty becuase I am emotionally volatile is true. Especially 4 year old kids. We have regained personal hobbies so we can entertain ourselves and not feel guilty about leaving the other one alone, because we know they're doing something they enjoy as well. This. Anyway, you sound like a great mom so I just wanted to tell you. adult conversation! Getting treatment fo depression will help with this. No matter how much I teach them, they've got no intellect. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/aaovzl/update_i_am_a_mother_and_i_regret_it_every_day_of/?utm_source=reddit-android. We've stopped trying to fit our lives around her, and fit her into our lives. It's such a tough situation that I don't think anyone could expect you to do more than you're already doing. Someone said they stay up all night because if they go to sleep it means they would wake up and it summed up everything I feel. No one can say which combination of those things will save you from the feeling and maybe not even all of them can, but at least you will have made the right choice to get some help. Yes, probably. But this isn’t just a book for moms. That being said, post partum depression takes many forms and can go on for years if left untreated. When she was good she earned pennies; when she was bad she lost pennies. Your loss!" It can get better and you can feel that connection! I can't tell anyone because I will seem like a monster. It's kind of like oxygen masks on an airplane. She is raging and screeching—she is completely in another orbit. I am a 28yr old father of two, one newborn, one 8rs. They'll figure out quickly enough that they need to be good, if they want to enjoy the museum or the beach or the botanical gardens. But you’re not alone. And then ignore them if they whine about it. But if she's been sitting for 20 minutes without doing anything, I'll release her. I tried to end my life more than once. It's OKAY to do things for you. Give her the plate/bowl, and sit down with her and then ignore until she gets your attention. Basically said that she eats fine at daycare but won't eat anything for dinner. It's a coping mechanism and it's very, very common. If they misbehave in public, go home. These are critical in developing a well rounded kid. When a scary external world and a turbulent internal world collide, the result is sometimes overwhelming and confusing. I had some severe untreated post-partum depression. And good luck Hun! All day I am yelled at, hit, bitten, screamed at by my two toddler boys. So stop staying up all night. Who am I truly feeling these things toward, and why? If you are a relatively good parent, trying her best (sounds like you are!) EDIT: I wasn't expecting such a response. The emotional ups and downs of our daughters life make us all feel like were on a roller coaster. Reaching out. She feels like my best friend now. I life is not good my mom beat me in get mad so much. It was clear from the day she was born though there was no bond. He does so much to help. To have to deal with this ALL OF THE TIME without the emotional support of a second parent, is absolutely exhausting: mentally, physically, emotionally. By Carolyn Steber. It gets easier with every single year that passes. I tried to end my life more than once. I tell people that everyday. Am I mad, glad or sad? More to the point, he said that some days kids will eat terribly (amount, quality of food, etc). I loved her but never quite had that "motherly" feeling. How do I show up in my different roles when I feel this way? I'm your mom, and I'm always going to be here for you, whether you like it or not." What you're describing sounds an awful lot like it could be actual, clinical depression (or PPD.) Sometime along the way, you may feel like the "roommate" is family and that you care for them that way. Spot on. She's happy and developing and all the other things she needs to do at her age. They're just going to destroy them or outgrow them anyway. Around, everyday. I don't have as much parenting experience as rebelkitty, though I'm currently living through an 18mo daughter. Please see a therapist in your area. My mom had me when she was only dating my dad for 2 months. We bake cookies for the seniors lodge, collect coats and shovel driveways for neighbours. Going back to work was a god send for me. Not like how I expected to at least. Hey so Im 13 years old. All of this all put together makes me wish I never became a mother. 143 shares. I got some help for her sake. Damn this is amazing advice. You spoil your kids rotten. What other times in my life have I felt like this? Where is the father? Go on lots of them. Your kids are naughty because you do not present a stable and authoritative image: also true. I wish I could go away. I push through every day for her and only her even though when I look at her, I don't feel what I want to feel. I hate being a mom. Are you always stressed, annoyed, or just plain furious because you spend most of your time at home thinking: "OH MY GOD I HATE MY DAD!" I secretly hate my kids. Life. Other days they'll eat better than kings. etc. Don't beg. They don't know what they're saying and they don't mean it in a "forever" sense anyway. It's impossible to be a nurturing person, when you've got nothing for yourself. Honestly, hating your dad is totally normal. I do want to add something that worked really, really well with us when my daughter was little. It hurts me so much knowing that my own mom hates my dad so much. But as soon as I have that moment to myself (even pooping. My therapist says that she understands all that, but my anger and hate and resentment towards this oerson who was supposed to there to help me and to help raise me are eating me alive. There's no question — hating your life is a tough place to be. It does get better as they grow up and become little people. It is probably contributing to theor behavior though. And that is not your fault. I hate my life. Mine however, may never, despite all the attempts we make. Your job as a parent is to patiently civilize them over the course of many years, so that some day they can be safely released into the world. Kids are irrational. Don't give up and please get some help. This was my story about a year ago. She feels like my best friend now. I was where she was, and with help, it can be better. Chores went undone, personal hobbies were uncultivated, friends ignored. Your daughter is 4, though, so she'll be in school soon if not already. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/aaovzl/update_i_am_a_mother_and_i_regret_it_every_day_of/?utm_source=reddit-android. They tell me that I am mean and they wish I would go away. Close friends? If I take them out to buy groceries or go the playground they scream and run away and disobey me. A great source for parents is "The Circle of Courage" that allows kids to develop four skills: generosity, mastery, independence, belonging. A lot of people hate their parents, and sometimes for good reason. I wouldn't feel guilty for ignoring the PTO or volunteer emails from their school because I don't want to help. I only wanted to chime in on the library suggestion. I do everything I can for my kids, I frequently go without so they can have new clothes, go on field trips to the museum or beach or botanical gardens, have new toys and books. So long as the overall trend is "they eat", you've got nothing to worry about. I have my family, and I'm completely OK with that. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. In the end we'd always give up and toss her a cheese and some milk, so she had something. We had the penny jar system. Limit the time she spent at the dinner table. He works fulltime and does so much to help. Great advice, I really hope she takes it. Tl/dr: Stop sacrificing. Very true. Not everyone in life is going to be nice and give you everything you want. My discipline methods could use work, absolutely. OP is going to be okay if she keeps doing what she is doing. I was told they are normal children and children do this sort of thing. Although I'm not a mom per say, I am a "mother" more or less. I seriously want to address your other feelings though. As soon as she figured out the system, her goal in life was to earn as many pennies as possible and to not lose any. Her kid is going to be okay. etc. Don't give a toddler a fancy 5-course meal. She yells at me all the time! Try one for a couple weeks, and you might see a vast improvement. Share on Facebook; Share on Twitter; Share on Google Plus; Share on Pinterest; I Hate My Mom; like; meh; 0; Current Page. Children are born as little, uncivilized, barbarian creatures, with half-formed brains. I hated my life and my daughter (3 yo at the time) was behaving poorly. So she obviously wasnt really ready.. but my Dad is heavily Christian and decided to marry my mom. Someday she'll be proud you asked for a little help. The fact that you care about her feelings shows that you want to be the best mother you can be. But when your best isn't good enough to change the situation, of course it's the worst feeling in the world. Every irregular freckle I wish to be melanoma so I can finally escape and have no one hate me for "taking the easy way out". If they seek it on their own and it leads to poor choices, redirect. I'm sure other, smarter people will provide good advice here. "How dare you raise a hand to me." Navigating an adolescent daughters emotional life is one of a moms toughest challenges. I can come home from work after being called a fat ss cnt b*tch, being spit on, attacked, watch a kid self-harm or threaten to commit suicide, deal with the RCMP, watch a kid be abandoned by his family, crying, screaming, running away, etc. Kids are hard work and demanding and they throw temper tantrums and expect the world because they're not so great at realising that it isn't all about them all the time. Get used to it. When you feel better, you're a better parent. If you went away, they'd feel that loss their entire lives. Having a boring day inside? I hate my life because it is empty; I hate my life for not having friends; I hate my life because everyone underestimates me; I hate when someone gives me lessons, and I tell me what I have to do; I hate when I don’t know how to answer to the people who kill my self-confidence; I hate my life for not having money so that I can become independent Adults are instructed to secure their own before helping others because even though there's that gut reaction of 'help the weak', we tend to overestimate our ability to work through asphyxiation and really our mental health is no different. What is it that I'm feeling? This will allow for your child to cultivate a sense of belonging and develop secure attachment to positive role models in his or her life. This is one of the problems with fucking exaggerating everything. And I guess for now that's all I can continue doing even though all I want to do is give up. Don't overfeed during the day. Please realize that if you do have clinical depression you might be incapable of feeling the emotions you think you should. We said this isn't like her and normally she'd eat anything we eat, but now she won't. Then I grew up and when I looked back to the things I did and said, I completely regretted everything. ), My stress level comes down. They make life miserable. But, as soon as those kids start misbehaving, leave. That's what libraries are for! add your own caption. My wife and I have each gone through our own phases of yelling and cursing and begging and pleading with her to just eat one little bite. This is all fantastic advice. Books you don't need to buy at all. You are quite literally the whole world to another human being. How much more can I take? I hate that I feel this way and there's nothing I can do to change it. There's lot's of free classes and groups to be able to participate in, with additional supports available. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Your kids sound exactly like mine but with less vulgar language, less running away and less dealing with the police. To have to deal with this - being a parent - is hard. I'm 19 years old, going to be 20 in a few months and I'm stuck with an overprotective mom. Post Partum depression can go on for literally years if it's not being treated. Swap them out every month so they always have "new toys". They ruin everything and my parenting skills suck. Don't plead. Same - which is why I've opted out. sometime she takes it out on me in my sister in brother i have some problems makeing a in b but i make 74-80 some time. It's okay to take care of yourself! I grew up without a mother due to suicide and I would not want that for my daughter. If I take them out to buy groceries or go the playground they scream and run away and disobey me. Physical activity is a huge component of growing up, not only for health but to burn those little buggers out so they'll fall asleep. I think the depression makes it hard for me to cope even with help. Pennies could be used to buy extra stories at bedtime or trips to the park or really anything that she liked. You really are doing the best you can to keep them warm, safe, fed and happy. This is probably some of the best parenting advice I've ever read. I hate him. It took a lot of tries, a lot of cries, and a lot of conversations, but we've finally figured out how to do what we want. You'll feel less like a monster, if you get enough sleep. Try to eat with her. They may decide to eat some of it after all, but even if they don't, at least it'll be in your belly, doing someone some good. If they have a favourite, keep that one out though (to keep the peace). Answers from doctors on mom I hate my life. Wait until she's eaten a bit and then offer the drink. He told us not to worry. I hate my family and I hate my mom for what she has done in the past. We're keeping 1/3 of the toys in her room (she rarely plays in there now), 1/3 out in the main living area, and the rest in a closet. They have no sense of forethought or understanding of repercussions at the toddler age, and god willing, your kids will grow out of this and learn these valuable lessons. I stay up all night because time seems to slow down. It sounds like you are in autopilot or survival mode allowing you to remain detached. Delicious! If you aren't one of those people that enjoys that phase of parenting, and so so so many people aren't, you have to weather through it and know that there is potential for things to get better. And a hug. Make dinner fun. But this isn’t just a book for moms. I try to be the best mom I can be though no matter how I'm feeling. And possibly therapy. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. Is even partial daycare an option? So, don't be so hard on yourself. Well, don't worry. I can understand that it's entirely overwhelming right now, and you have every right to feel the way you do. Kids don't need new clothes. More money. I feel like she has an evil heart for not caring about him at all and she tells me that she hates him everyday. Mom, I Hate My Life! The pool is an inexpensive way of taking care of all that energy. I got some help for her sake. Whenever the child says, "I want that!" These are the four pillars a kid needs to have in order for life to be pleasant. I think a lot of parents who grew up poor want to spoil their kids, even though it causes trouble in other ways. Loved her, provided for her, made sure that she is cared for and feels loved and has everything she needs. I’m in my early 30s and I hate my parents too, except unlike you, I was never abused as a kid and I don’t really feel bad at all for hating them. Use words like "mmm" and "yummy" while eating your own plate. Dear Polly, I’m 25 years old and have admittedly done a very weird job of guiding my life thus far. Definitely agree with others that it sounds like you have untreated PPD or depression but I wanted to add: kids can be twats. I myself was calling my kid "roommate" for the first year. Sometimes when we do suff wrong she get mad. Try to learn to laugh. I'd rather work, write or teach so when I do get my kids at the end of the day, I feel like I've accomplished something important and I don't "hate being a mom" when I'm inundated with backpacks, boo-boos, smelly shoes filled with sand, and a to-do list that never seems to end. Maybe you feel like life isn’t worth living. comments while you do it. Never try to feed her until she asks for help. I am feeling much calmer now I have a "plan of attack". I can't pretend I'm okay anymore because I'm not. The toddlers only say she's mean when not getting their, they already know their mom is afraid and doesn't want to be mean..she'll do anything to avoid it, which means giving into toddler demands. This can stop you from bonding normally with your child along with everything else you're describing. Yes I do. And I constantly feel guilty for always counting down the days and years where I won't have to dedicate every waking second that I'm not at work tending to her every need. She'll eat any snack you set in front of her, so instead keep feeding to a couple in-between meal snacks, and the primary meals themselves. Don't take anything personally. I will put into place some of the suggestions here. It can make you resent the time you do spend with your kid because you literally get no break to be yourself. For so long, we didn't do anything other than get home from work, feed and put our daughter to bed, then watch TV until we went to bed. If they don't have it, provide it. My mom is addicted to drugs and alcohol. These activities will foster self-confidence, responsibility and independence. She doesn't listen even when I am stern and consistent with rules and consequences. I'm so sorry you're going through this. These skills, among others listed below, will assist your kids in growing into more rounded children (with patience) and will assist you in your own sanity! Everyone loves their kids so much and does everything with and for them all the time with a smile on their face. If we weren't, we'd all stay barbarians our whole lives. Saying those words out loud -- or even to yourself in your head -- can be a painful acknowledgment that even late in life we can't always make our relationships with our parents work out the way we want them to. I wake up every morning absolutely dreading the day ahead. Where in my life do I feel helpless? God cares how you feel. I typically do 30 minutes max from sit down to release unless she's still putting food in her mouth. A husband? In the journey of life, there comes a time when everything seems to go against you, relationships end, sudden illness kicks in, friends move away, and … Even blames this whole sexual abuse that's been happening for years and years on the both of it. Have you considered you might be suffering from depression? MSRP: $17.99 Was: $17.99 Sale: $14 ... Navigating an adolescent daughter's emotional life is one of a mom's toughest challenges. Now she is a teenager and will still talk about the penny jar with fondness. I can't remember the last time she didn't whine when she talked. Discuss this with your mother. Of course I loved her from the second I saw her, but our first day together was the most disappointing day of my life. It won’t always be this way. When they say they wish you would go away, simply say, "Yeah, that ain't gonna happen. not wiping butts!). Eating with her reinforces that "it's dinner time now". And I hate myself every day for it. You need to see a doctor about this, tell them how you're feeling, and get the help you need. Just the fact that she has a mom who is trying and is concerned about her goes a long way. We deal with this regularly with our kids and I understand where you are coming from. BUT like everyone else here says: The more help you get, the better: finding things for just YOU, friends, therapy, treatment for depression. You aren't choosing to feel blah/blank/ neutral about her. A trip to the dog park or the local SPCA or humane shelter is also a way for them to socialize with other beings in order to learn empathy. Literally no more than a handful. We aim to keep this a safe space. I gave my mother a hard time when I was a kid. Stop buying them new clothes. I get what you're saying and I think the same thoughts. That'll give you more time for yourself. 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